“Sigma Male” characteristics
The word “sigma male” refers to a popular, successful, but very independent and self-reliant guy in masculinist subcultures. The word is thought to have been coined by far-right activist and writer Theodore Robert Beale, alias Vox Day. Varied social analysts and members of the manosphere have different notions about who the sigma male is. Di Placido describes him as “basically an introverted alpha male.” He is, nevertheless, a “lone wolf.” Others believe he is as powerful as the alpha male but not as submissive as the beta male.
Sigma depicts a male archetype that has existed for ages but has only recently become popular. When you look at their characteristics, you’ll see that this man archetype isn’t your typical guy. What distinguishes him from the others is his determination to take the lonely way and colour outside the lines. He does not believe in the traditional social dominance order, which some argue is fictitious and arbitrary.
1. The lone wolf:
The lone wolf attribute was addressed briefly earlier. It bears further explanation to avoid any misinterpretation of what appears to be a positive (rather than negative) characteristic of the sigma guy. The lone wolf’s personality is diametrically opposed to that of a pack wolf. He’s been compared as a rogue wolf who splits away from the pack in order to survive on his own. This does not imply that he is antisocial, as some have claimed. The man can thrive and be happy alone and single. Isolating himself during a pandemic does not send him into a melancholy mood. His trademark is solitude, and he’s quite content with it.
2.Quiet
Do you have a quiet, silent boyfriend? Maybe he’s a sigma man, someone who prefers to be alone and quiet. In fact, he cherishes it, and it is vital for him to physically and mentally replenish and rebalance. He is also regarded as the “strong, silent type” since he spends a lot of his private time contemplating and analysing life decisions. It’s fairly uncommon for this characteristic of his to be misinterpreted as boring. While he’s likely to have a man cave where he hides out, the guy can find serenity everywhere because he can access solace from inside.
3. obstinate:
Quiet but defiant? What makes this possible? Perhaps this comes as no surprise to you. You read before that he doesn’t believe in societal hierarchies and instead prefers to march to the beat of his own drum. That’s a polite way of stating he’s a renegade. While the adjective “rebellious” has a negative connotation, if he rejects society’s imposed laws and beliefs and succeeds, for example, as an entrepreneur or innovator, that is good. The goal outweighs the costs.
Going against the grain may be one of his success secrets. He must be able to think outside the box in order to be a great innovator. He must be willing to try out things that others will not. Going against the grain is a form of freedom that sends a strong statement that he is unconcerned about fitting in.
4. Mysterious:
Something unusual about the lone wolf makes him appealing to women. We simply can’t put our finger on it. Aha! He has an aura of mystery and intrigue about him. He’s not difficult to read; he’s just not that open, and it’s this component of his enigmatic demeanour that adds to his allure. You’d think his secretive personality would repel ladies. Instead, their curiosity is piqued by the conduct. If you’re attempting to categorise this guy, you might have to work a little harder to uncover all of his layers!
5. Independent:
This alpha male without a pack not only flies alone, but he’s also self-sufficient. Relying on others consumes too much time, energy, and tension in the hope that they will get things done correctly. He avoids stressors by doing things oneself, and he is confident in his capacity to succeed. People mistake him for someone who believes he has it all together and doesn’t need anyone else. Sigma guys appreciate help from their families, friends, and romantic partners, but relying on them to meet their physical or emotional demands is not an option.
